What to read after How Come One Woman Isn't Enough For A Man??

There seems to be a lot of discussion about monogamy as it relates to

the male species. We are genetically prone to seek out the affections of

multiple female partners. It is in our nature to do so. But the members

of our female society have decided by a general consensus that we are

suppose to adapt to the concept of relationships that ultimately lead to

marriage and children. There is a very grey area in my opinion. Multiple

women tend to chase after the alpha males and have been known to go

to war with each other in an effort to become his one and only

companion. As the battle rages on men are fighting for a different way

of life. We try to conquer as many women as we can before we are

captured and conform to the ways of western civilization. There is

nothing wrong with a committed relationship if that is ones desire. But

as men we resist and try to remain a free spirit and roam freely as

nature intended us to do. With this being said we often surrender our

selves if we decide that we want to settle down with a woman that has

captured our complete interest and start a family and a future together

in some cases as man and wife. Here is where things start getting

complicated. With this committed relationship we envision that our

lives will become less complicated and somehow more fulfilling. This is

not always the case. We have now fallen victim to the illusion of our

expectations. I in no way condemn these practices but I do believe that

if a man enters into this contract he should be rewarded with love,

intimacy, and a partnership that creates a satisfying future of

happiness. Men and women have fallen victim to these circumstances.

Familiarity often breeds a level of comfort. Any member of this

partnership can become too comfortable and put less effort into it over

time. This is when the level of intimacy dramatically decreases. It does

happen and many couples grow apart. But there is a solution if the

two of them can discuss relationship issues that evolve with open and

honest communication and understanding. Many couples have a

dedicated date night to keep each other engaged and stimulated. It is

not always an option but effort must be put forth to build that bond

together and maintain that needed level of intimacy. The average man

can maintain a healthy relationship with his loving partner. Just keep in

mind that outside interferences come into play. This can be in the form

of a lover or just family and friends putting their noses in your sacred

business. That is when your bond is tested. It is hard enough to keep

things going in a relationship or marriage as it is. You must love and

trust each other and overcome any obstacle that may come along. That

friendship can last a lifetime if you continue to work together as a team

or it can break into a million pieces and shatter like a broken glass.

There is no perfect formula for success. But loving each other

unconditionally is a great position to be in. Listen to each other and

compromise when the situation calls for it. Talk to each other and hold

your secrets with sacred intentions. Work through your problems

together. Be solid and create an unbreakable bond. This is not as

easy as it sounds but over the years mistakes will be made and

hopefully forgiven. A man can be with one woman if they are working

towards a common goal. They can complete each other. Both parties

must be fully committed for this to work. The goal is to become a

romantic partnership. The journey is filled with obstacles that must be

overcome with love and understanding that you are in this together for

a lifetime. Keep that perspective and work together as a team.